Advent calendar ideas without chocolate or sweets

Swap the chocolate for three kinds of door: something to do together, something small to keep, and something to give away. Most of the 30 ideas below cost nothing, and in our homes a whole 24 days came in at a few pounds with a couple of small bought things for the weekends.

A hen hands Ringo the rat a paper card with a heart drawn on it, beside a low table with more picture cards.
  • Cost (rough guide): free if you stick to things to do and give, a few pounds with small extras
  • Ages: 3 and up. For younger children, see our toddler Advent calendar ideas
  • Each day: 2 to 20 minutes
  • Printer: optional. The 24-day plan below can be copied by hand

What can go in an Advent calendar instead of chocolate?

Pick from the three groups below. A good mix is mostly things to do, with a small thing to keep on weekends and a thing to give once a week. Costs are rough guides for UK shops and will vary.

Things to do together

IdeaAgesRough cost
A Christmas lights walk: spot a star, a tree and a wreath3 and upFree
Paper snowflakes, with a grown-up for the scissors4 and upFree
A Christmas joke to read out at tea time4 and upFree
Freeze dance: stop like a reindeer when the music stops3 and upFree
Add a link to a paper chain each day3 and upFree
A ticket for a family film night with popcorn (popcorn for 5 and up)5 and upAbout £1
A ticket to bake biscuits together at the weekend4 and upAbout £2
Write or draw a letter to Santa4 and upFree, plus a stamp if you post it
A board game night, children choose the game5 and upFree
A ticket to stay up 15 minutes later4 and upFree

Small things to keep

IdeaAgesRough cost
One piece of a 24-piece jigsaw a day, finished on Christmas Eve3 and up£2 to £4 for the jigsaw
A sheet of stickers3 and up20p to £1
A Christmas pencil or rubber5 and upAbout 50p
A bath crayon or bath bomb (check for skin allergies)3 and up50p to £1
Christmas socksAny age£1 to £2
A tiny notebook for drawing or lists5 and upAbout 50p
A Christmas book you already own, wrapped againAny ageFree
A Christmas colouring sheet, folded small3 and upFree
A packet of seeds to plant in spring4 and up50p to £1
A tree decoration they choose and hang4 and upAbout £1

Things to give

IdeaAgesRough cost
One item for a food bank box (see our reverse Advent calendar)3 and up50p to £1
A kindness coupon for someone in the family4 and upFree
Make a card for a neighbour3 and upFree
Choose a toy to pass on to a charity shop or toy appeal4 and upFree
Put out seed or a halved apple for the birds3 and upAbout £1
A thank-you note for a teacher, the postie or the bin crew4 and upFree
A coin in a charity tin when you are out3 and upWhatever you choose
A ticket to choose tea tonight4 and upFree
Make a hot drink for a grown-up (with help near the kettle)6 and upFree
Phone or video call a grandparent and sing them a carol3 and upFree

The 5 minute version

If it is 30 November and you have nothing ready: grab 24 envelopes or paper bags, write one idea from the lists above on each scrap of paper, number them 1 to 24, and peg them on a string or drop them in a bowl. Put the quick ones on school nights and the bigger ones on weekends. Done.

A ready-made 24-day plan with no chocolate

Quick ideas on school nights, bigger ones at weekends, a thing to give every Sunday. December 2026 starts on a Tuesday, so the weekends are marked.

DayWhatYou need
1Open the first piece of a 24-piece jigsawA jigsaw, pieces wrapped or in envelopes
2A Christmas joke at tea timeNothing
3Add a link to a paper chainPaper strips and tape
4Freeze danceMusic
5 (weekend)Paper snowflakesPaper, scissors and a grown-up
6 (weekend)Make a card for a neighbourPaper and pens
7A sheet of stickersStickers
8Christmas colouring sheetA printed sheet and crayons
9Put out food for the birdsSeed or a halved apple
10Write a letter to SantaPaper and pens
11Christmas socksSocks
12 (weekend)Christmas lights walkWarm coats
13 (weekend)One item for a food bank boxA tin or packet from the cupboard or shop
14A ticket to choose tea tonightNothing
15A thank-you note for a teacherPaper and pens
16A Christmas pencilA pencil
17Phone a grandparent and singA phone
18Stay up 15 minutes laterNothing
19 (weekend)Bake biscuits togetherBiscuit ingredients
20 (weekend)Choose a toy to pass onA bag
21Board game nightA game you own
22A tree decoration to hangA decoration
23Family film nightA film, and popcorn for 5 and up
24Last jigsaw piece, and a kindness coupon for everyonePaper and pens

Keeping it safe

Questions parents ask

What can I put in an Advent calendar instead of chocolate?

Mix three kinds of thing: an activity to do together, like a lights walk or a joke at tea time; a small thing to keep, like stickers, socks or one piece of a jigsaw; and a small thing to give, like a tin for a food bank box or a card for a neighbour. Most of these cost nothing.

How do I make a no-chocolate Advent calendar cheaply?

Use envelopes, paper bags or a jar, and fill most days with activities on slips of paper, which are free. Save bought things for weekends, and rewrap books and decorations you already own. A 24-piece jigsaw, one piece a day, costs a few pounds and lasts all of December.

Will my children be disappointed without chocolate?

Some might, at first. It helps to involve them in choosing some of the doors, to keep a small treat they love for weekends, and to make a few days a surprise. In our homes, the children came to look forward to the doing more than the eating.

Are non-chocolate Advent fillers safe for toddlers?

Only if they are big enough not to be swallowed. For under 3s, leave out anything that fits through a toilet-roll tube, anything with a button battery or magnet, and whole nuts or popcorn. Things to do together are the safest fillers of all.

More ideas from Famoo

Want a door to open for you each day?

In Famoo, your family’s Advent calendar opens one door a day with that day’s activity, picture steps and a part for each age, so brothers and sisters can do it together. No chocolate needed.

Famoo is a family app for UK homes, in beta, so things may change.

Where this comes from

Each fact on this page links to one of these. Everything else is our own view from our families.

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